@jk they also act like there's an expectaction to be perfect, when there isn't, there's just an expectation to try
so you forget CWs sometimes
so you don't check someone's pronouns and default to gender neutral when they've expressed a strong preference
you'll get called out and given the opportunity to apologize and change
like, I don't get how that's bad/unexpected/impossible to tolerate
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@maenad maybe they're also inclined to be the kind of person that doesn't like to admit they're wrong, and instead double-down on why what they did was okay? so they'd rather not apologise, and they'd rather not be put in the position of admitting vulnerability or that they made a mistake