there's weird feminine value in being unobtainable.
if you sleep with a man, they outvalue you, and so people defer to them as being in charge of you. but they're not - you're in charge of you. so you don't sleep with men so you don't have to correct fools.
at least, you don't sleep with men that they know about. you find your conquests invisibly. and maintain an illusion of unobtainability. because being obtainable is bad.
I should probably stop.
I'm a tactile person
one of my love languages is touch
one of my best friends was recently like "it would be weird to hug maenad, they have this untouchable aura" and I'm
completely at a loss for how to correct that besides mauling their cat when I need affection
this doesn't really change "greyro" status so much as it's an examination for why I need to keep my relationships, whatever their nature may be, deeply private
The social network of the future: No ads, no corporate surveillance, ethical design, and decentralization! Own your data with Mastodon!